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The (L) Squad Advice
So, uh, a few entries back, I mentioned this group, right? It's me and eleven other people, and we're all... well. We're not all lesbians, far from it. We're just a group of girls. Open-minded girls who are all friends and we needed help from each other, so we decided to give help to everyone else too.
I only mention this really, because, uh, you see, I did my introduction video today.
If you, for some, strange, demented reason, want to see me ramble for a bit, just go watch the video here.
(Oh god oh god, why me? Why is this me?)
I only mention this really, because, uh, you see, I did my introduction video today.
If you, for some, strange, demented reason, want to see me ramble for a bit, just go watch the video here.
(Oh god oh god, why me? Why is this me?)
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Oh, hey, high-five. I play on both teams, too \o/ And I wouldn't tell my parents either. I go to an all-girls' Catholic school and almost all the students there end up bi or lesbian, so I've got no trouble being open about it aside from my family. (Everything you said in your vid about your family? Mine are exactly the same.)
I absolutely love what you said towards the end.
And, lol the cat digging in your suitcase. XD
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*high-fives* It's fun to play both teams, really. The school I go to is a mostly boys school, but the group of people I hang out with is comprised of mostly bisexual/openminded people. And I will never tell my family, because they have legit told me that they think gay people need to be fixed. And I got so angry with them then that I couldn't speak to them for the rest of the afternoon.
That was the most important thing I've ever had said to me. 'You are okay'. And I think that it's something everyone needs to learn too.
Liam was being such a brat... >.
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My dad told me that it's fine to be gay, as long as you're not in his family. Hearing that pissed me off so bad. It was so hypocritical and disgusting and destroyed the little hope I had that they'd be fine with it if I ended up with a girl. Oh, well. I guess I shouldn't have been surprised. They don't even want me to end up with a guy, so yeah. ///___-
And there you go with your wonderful words again. ♥
Is Liam his name? That's adorable. ♥
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Ugh, that sort of thing pisses me of. At least a little. My family just ignores it when they can, except for my sister. She's cool with homosexuality, because she doesn't find anything wrong with it. (This being said, I can't ever tell her either because I get the feeling that she'll tell Mom and Dad.)
I try, I suppose. They're just these things that come out of my head. They don't seem to have rhyme or reason, really.
Liam is his name. He's a cute cat, really. A bit of a pest sometimes, though.
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I also find it uncanny that you reply at the exact minute that I come online, haha.
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I have a talent sometimes. Best timing in the world. I'mma go back to bed for an hour, though. Massive headache.
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High-fives for your intro! I've never really put myself into a straight/bi-sexual/or gay category to be honest. I've only been in serious relationships with guys, but have dated/experimented/been closer than just friends with girls. I admit that I have been attracted to girls before and find the female body incredibly sexy...
I can definitely relate to a lot you have said though! My mom is actually heavily religious AND bi-sexual. She's so crazy religious that she feels she's a bad person for liking women and that she has to go to church to "get rid of it". My aunt is openly a lesbian and after seeing the entire family talk horribly about her behind her back, I wasn't about to tell anyone about my feelings towards girls either.
Aside from that, another high five for everything else you said! Haha, my family really doesn't mind my videogames/fandoms.. mostly because they've given up once they realized every kid in my family is like that (seriously... all my cousins are also into fandom and gaming). Even with that though, I always feel incredibly nerdy and bad (or afraid to bring it up around my family... (LIKE WHEN I ASKED MY DAD FOR BIRTHDAY MONEY FOR MY COSPLAY WIG OH GODOHGODOHGOD I MUST HAVE SOUNDED SO NERDY DDDDD:) because they probably think I'm way too old to still like the things I do... especially because my fandoms are so... juvenile (I guess that'd be the way to put it).
I don't know, I'll always be a big kid and that will probably never change. Kudos to you for keeping it up! :D
this is long, Alisha shut up no one cares now...
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Not everyone needs to put themselves in a category. I've just known since I was thirteen that I liked boys and girls, and the term for that was bisexual. (Or Ambisextrous, but that came into being only last year, because of a book I read.) For me, I haven't dated any guys yet, so I've only had a relationship with a girl.
Oh, good lord, the combination of religious AND self hating! *patpat* I do not envy you there. My family just really doesn't understand why it happens, and when they don't understand something, they react badly. (Not as badly as one of my other friends. She came out to her family as Bi and her dad told her "Get over it." Things are going to go interestingly when she decides to tell them that she's considering transgender as well...
See above for why my family doesn't react well to my fannishness. I sorta don't get it, because Dad likes Star Wars and Star Trek and I'm just like "Really? You play video games too, and I know this because I SEE you play them, and you're going to give me shit about it?"
I will not grow up. I'm not going to stop going to conventions until I feel like it, and the way I feel about them now, I'm not going to stop for a while.
(I like reading it!! you're fine, it's okay!!)
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(Didn't even know a word like ambisextrous existed).
It's the most ridiculous combination I have ever seen in my life. She joined a group of other bisexuals and homosexuals that think it's something wrong with them as well... and I'm just sitting at home like *slowly raises gun to head*. I think my family might be the same though. My mom was raised in a family that just doesn't understand it as well as it going against religion, so it has always been something she was ashamed of. Good luck to your friend there -_____- All the luck in the world with "support" like that.
Well, you shouldn't stop doing something that makes you happy as long as it's not hurting anyone. Don't worry, I'm not stopping anytime soon either. Heck, I'm going to my first convention sometime in November and I'm 20... Not going to stop when I just started :]
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(It's a word coined in a book I love, "The Wise Man's Fear" by Patrick Rothfuss. A character is trying to describe someone who likes men and women, and that's the word another character suggests.)
I feel honestly so fucking sorry for those people. Because they have to be some of the most self-hating people in the world, and that just sucks. They're never going to be really happy. And trust me, we're going to be there for him. He's planning on telling his family that he's FtM at his birthday in a month or two, so... >.>
OOOH, CONS ARE SO MUCH FUN. As long as you go with the right people, anyway. Make sure you go to the rave. Actually tons of fun, even for awkward people.
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I SHALL DO MY BEST TO FIND THIS RAVE YOU SPEAK OF! and I am awkward... so PERFECT!
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BRING GLOWSTICKS. SO MANY GLOWSTICKS. The raves tend to be bigger events, so take a look around after 11 pm or so.